Sometimes you have to get down the line and just say what you will stand for and what you will not, period. We can't expect other people to always understand the things we are not saying. Not everyone is capable of doing that. (as long as we really mean what we say) There was a saying that; " if you can't understand my silence then you probably won't understand my words." however, why not try something different? why not try to speak, why not give it a try? Then decide... ( we can't expect other people to understand us when we don't understand them. How do they understand things, etc.) This is not however to lose yourself in the process but to have a better understanding of yourself and the people around you... After all, we are not living for ourselves alone. We are all connected one way or another.
How about those who are on the louder side of things? I also say, why not try something different? Surrender and let that self-love be your guide. Try to be in the space of silence as others, then decide... Were you able to understand them? Were you able to gain or lose something in surrendering? I guess, if you come from love you'll gain a lot and understand a lot of things. However, also know what you'll stand for and not and make them clear to others. In words and in silence.
There may be others who'll be completely on the left side of things, other on the right side of things. But if we really do love and realize that we are all one, and that there's unity in diversity, maybe, just maybe, we can all meet halfway... I'd walk halfway through...will you? Well if not, my heart never gets tired and she just whispers, she's got other plans! Much love ^_~
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